Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Exploring single woman's lonely psychological

Woman, whether you are a swan or an ugly duckling, the first just a good love yourself, be eligible to be loved. Every woman is a landscape, are worth having a copy of their own love and sky. Can not wait for a loved one, loneliness is a kind of enjoyment, his own hands for a cup of coffee, but also by the warmth of alcohol.
Every woman has the right to pursue what you want. Has many many love to connect in a simple quiet life, day and night, sitting watching clouds, is a happy one. Not a lot a lot of love, like the hero of the book Yi Shu Hei Bao, like, you can want to have a lot of money, material, can also bring security and warmth.
When procreation is no longer only have meaning, students are not students? When children? And who from? These issues have become a bundle of disturbing problems of modern women fear many women have children at an inappropriate time, even more afraid of a baby Huang Lian reduced after this break, for fear everything will change after the birth of a child: face, body, work, husband and hope in life.
"Will be carried out in the end of love" is the voice of all women, so women are really afraid of being let down. However, the material in this era of love, the impact will be a lot of things, adapt, experience is the direct consequence of having an affair. In short, marriage this "fire" of heaven to rescue the common needs of men and women.

Psychological experts interpretation of why distance produce beauty

In interpersonal psychology, the most moderate distance to the attraction effect is psychological, people willing to actively carry out interpersonal relationships, and too close or too far distance will engender psychological exclusion or alienation effect, makes that barriers to interpersonal communication. Why, then, the psychological distance effect would it?
First of all, the reason is psychological adaptation. The ancients said: "into the Orchid of the room, long and not smell their fragrance, into Baoyuzhisi, for a long time without its foul smell." Inseparable friends every day to meet friendly, if not promptly adjust psychological distance, it will not feel each other's advantages and strengths, and the advantages of others or the bright spot is the distinct impression that, because the distance therefore, will not have to adapt to the phenomenon.
Second, is the psychological privacy reasons. People do not want another one too close in space, their own, they would not want to go near the others, one important reason is that each person has their own privacy, do not like the others too close to see too clearly his own. That is, most people do not like to do, "Hollow Man", in particular, do not like others to see their own shortcomings and inadequacies. If friends are not properly stretched too close to psychological distance, without the appropriate degree of freedom to each other, feel each other so that they have many satisfied, so there will be psychological exclusion or psychological reaction to escape.

Man crossed in love for more times, his psychological will more healthier

Queen Mary, University of London, "breaking up of the mental health of both men and women," researchers at the Research Group survey found that only consider the impact of gender relations on mental health cases, common law relationships, women are more prone to anxiety and other psychological problems, their causes may be more likely the woman was a lack of money and property on the sense of security, while men are more concerned about is the lifetime will be tied securely.
The two sides broke up, low mood and depression is a normal phenomenon in this, but women recover from the emotional damage of time much longer than men, and women's mental health will increase in the number with the break up and deteriorating. The men, on the contrary, there had been two or more men break through, very good state of mind, even more than other men but also health.
Although the results show that breaking up of the mental health of men and women different, but for the mental health of the two couples at the same time to achieve the best state standards, or consistent with the traditional understanding, that is, "gender relations stable or family well-being of people, their mental health is often at its best; the contrary, the painful break up the culprit leading to mental unhealthy, especially for women hurt more. "