In interpersonal psychology, the most moderate distance to the attraction effect is psychological, people willing to actively carry out interpersonal relationships, and too close or too far distance will engender psychological exclusion or alienation effect, makes that barriers to interpersonal communication. Why, then, the psychological distance effect would it?
First of all, the reason is psychological adaptation. The ancients said: "into the Orchid of the room, long and not smell their fragrance, into Baoyuzhisi, for a long time without its foul smell." Inseparable friends every day to meet friendly, if not promptly adjust psychological distance, it will not feel each other's advantages and strengths, and the advantages of others or the bright spot is the distinct impression that, because the distance therefore, will not have to adapt to the phenomenon.
Second, is the psychological privacy reasons. People do not want another one too close in space, their own, they would not want to go near the others, one important reason is that each person has their own privacy, do not like the others too close to see too clearly his own. That is, most people do not like to do, "Hollow Man", in particular, do not like others to see their own shortcomings and inadequacies. If friends are not properly stretched too close to psychological distance, without the appropriate degree of freedom to each other, feel each other so that they have many satisfied, so there will be psychological exclusion or psychological reaction to escape.
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